Author Archives: HARI S NAIR
Author Archives: HARI S NAIR
I have manifested weight loss not just once, but twice using the Law of Attraction. The first time, I lost around 25 kg (55 pounds), but I made a major mistake that caused me to gain the weight back. That experience taught me something very important: using the Law of Attraction to manifest your ideal body is not a one-dimensional process. It requires alignment across multiple areas of your life, especially your mindset, self-image, and your relationship with food and your body.
In this post, I will take you through the exact process that worked for me and what I learned along the way. We will explore how mind conditioning and self-image play a powerful role in achieving lasting weight loss. I will also share insights on understanding your body, building body awareness, and making better food choices, all from an energetic and intentional perspective.
While many people use the Law of Attraction to attract more money or improve relationships, few recognize how effective it can be for transforming physical appearance. Your body is a reflection of your inner beliefs, especially the subconscious thoughts you continue to repeat about yourself every day. Genetics certainly play a role, but so do your emotions, mindset, and daily habits.
If you have been stuck in a cycle of dieting and frustration, or if you have tried everything and still cannot lose the weight, this post may be exactly what you need to shift your energy and finally align with the body you truly desire. Continue reading
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “I’ll start when I’m more ready,” or “This just isn’t the right time”? If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many of us put our dreams and goals on hold, not because we’re lazy or incapable, but because we’re waiting for the “perfect” moment that never comes.
But let’s be clear: this isn’t about the kind of perfectionism that pushes people to work harder and harder, often at the cost of their well-being. That type can lead to anxiety, burnout, and even depression.
What we’re talking about here is a quieter, more deceptive kind of perfectionism. It convinces us we need better timing, more resources, or improved skills before we can begin. And unfortunately, it often leads to the biggest hurdle in the path of success: procrastination.
This concept ties closely to a recent post I wrote titled 10 Effective Ways to Stop Procrastinating, where I explain how our minds trick us into believing that delays are justified. One of the key insights from that post is this: you don’t need to see the whole picture before you begin.
That leads us perfectly into the next topic:
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Procrastination affects everyone, from putting off workouts to missing deadlines. But it’s not about laziness. Research shows it’s often linked to anxiety, perfectionism, or lack of motivation. The good news? You can beat it. In this post, we’ll explore 10 proven, science-based strategies to stop procrastinating and take control of your time.
To some degree, we all procrastinate; it is in human nature. From children delaying their homework to adults postponing work, procrastination is often associated with laziness. However, this is not always true.
When procrastination becomes a person’s second nature, it can imply a deeper psychological issue. Conversely, the opposite behaviour can hint at conditions such as OCD, where people feel a compulsion to complete tasks immediately.
The habit of deliberately delaying tasks without any valid reason can significantly impact a person’s life in many ways. In fact, it can gradually evolve into a self-destructive pattern, resulting into missed opportunities. Severely affected individuals may also risk losing their jobs, damaging their relationships, and, most critically, jeopardising their physical and mental well-being.
That’s why I recommend seeking medical help and therapy, especially when procrastination reaches extreme levels but for moderate level you can use the mind hacks to stop procrastinating presented in this post.
It is a form of addiction, not a physical one, but a mental one. To someone who is not addicted to procrastination, it may appear as an insignificant issue, and they may think that the affected individual is doing it out of laziness. However, in reality, once you become addicted to postponing tasks, you have less control over your mind, much like people addicted to smoking or drinking.
I can relate to you if you are frustrated because you always keep putting off your tasks, and your mind tricks you into rescheduling your important work repeatedly. Don’t worry; I am going to provide you with 10 solutions based on human psychology and mind studies that you can use for overcoming procrastination.
Just read them and find out for yourself which of the following is an effective way to beat procrastination based on a trial-and-error approach, because only you can discover what works best for you. Continue reading
In this post, I will discuss several reasons why self-image is important so that you can get motivated to learn more about what it means and how it shapes your personality and life. I will also talk about how you can foster a healthy self-image, which can benefit both you and the people around you.
It is very common for people to hear about the importance of working on their self-esteem, confidence, and maintaining peace of mind. However, rarely do people talk about working on one’s self-image, which is, in fact, at the root of all these other aspects. Even though only a few people truly understand what self-image is, the bottom line is this: whether one is aware of how self-image works or not, it is always at play. It continually changes with one’s experiences and social factors, and much of it remains the same, originating from childhood—unless efforts are made to change it.
A successful person, however success is defined, is good at something because their psychology allows them to flourish in that particular area. The same is true for someone whose life feels miserable—it’s their self-image and mindset that influence their experience. I can’t emphasize enough how important it is to work on your self-image, but I’ll do my best to highlight its significance with these points. This will also give you a clearer picture of what this is all about:-
We all have opinions about everything in our lives, from what we watch on Netflix to the types of people we hang out with. We make these choices based on how they relate to us and form opinions around them. The more something matters to us, the more opinionated we become about it. This holds true for what we like, what we don’t like, and even what we don’t care about.
We are so attached to our views that it often takes a significant amount of external effort if someone badly wants to shift our perspective, even for a moment. What do you think it would take for you to change your opinion about yourself? Continue reading
I have often heard people say that while meditation helps them achieve mental peace and emotional control, they feel it negatively impacts their work. They describe becoming less driven or even a bit lazy after practicing mindfulness or other meditation techniques. While I understand that such experiences can happen, it’s essential to delve deeper to uncover the reasons behind these feelings.
Sometimes, people feel that meditation makes them less socially interactive or that they’re no longer as “fun” to be around. Others might even worry that these practices are making them less interesting as individuals.
The first thing to understand here is that the truth is not always what we perceive, we often judge ourselves too much when we are around others and begin to think thoughts that are not really relevant to the actual situation. It is like working out for a few days and feeling that you have not achieved any good results whereas any remark from others or even the slightest hint that you are not fit will make you think negatively about the activity altogether.
However, the key factor at play here is your “ego” or “psyche”—or what I prefer to call your “self-image.” I use this term frequently and delve into it extensively throughout my blog. There’s something within us—a kind of protective mechanism—that resists major changes in our lives. It works to maintain the status quo, as any change is often perceived as a potential threat to our sense of stability and familiarity. Continue reading
I have personally tried the 25-minute ‘Pomodoro technique’ and found it to be an effective method for tackling pending projects and tasks. It is a powerful tool for addressing procrastination. In this discussion, we will explore how to effectively use this time management method and evaluate its efficacy in promoting the timely completion of tasks.
The origins of this approach can be traced back to the 1980s when it was crafted by Francesco Cirillo, a prolific author in the field of time management. The method derived its name from the Italian word for “tomato” because Cirillo, during the process of testing and designing, relied on a tomato-shaped kitchen timer.
Furthermore, the Pomodoro technique has demonstrated its remarkable utility, particularly for students. It harnesses a psychological quirk that compels our minds to prioritize task completion when faced with a deadline, followed by a rewarding break.
This technique improves concentration and efficiency, which proves particularly advantageous for students looking to streamline their study habits. As it promotes the breaking down of tasks, it can be an invaluable tool for children as they prepare for exams, particularly for subjects that require memorization. Nonetheless, adults can also reap the advantages of this approach, which can prove to be a lifesaver for individuals facing work deadlines.
No matter what work you want to complete, whether it is as simple as something like cleaning your home or something related to your academics or profession, you can implement this technique to successfully finish the work on time.
Why is the Pomodoro Technique designed around a 25-minute time interval?
Research indicates that the typical human attention span, particularly for those aged 12 and above, falls within the range of 20 to 40 minutes. Francesco Cirillo, the creator of this method, developed it with a broad demographic in mind, and 25 minutes appears to strike a balance that accommodates all. This duration provides ample time for meaningful focus without leaving individuals feeling that no progress has been made, while simultaneously preventing distractions by being concise enough that anyone can commit to it for a mere 25 minutes.
From my experience with this technique, I can say that there is a psychological compulsion to resume the task at hand when we unconsciously sense that half an hour has passed. Specifically, I find that the 25-minute work period followed by a 5-minute break creates a perfect balance—there’s no overwhelming pressure from the clock, yet it ensures the break doesn’t extend too long, encouraging us to get back to work before another cycle begins.
In this post, I want to share some of my favorite bedtime law of attraction (LOA) techniques that have consistently worked wonders for me.
You might already know that the time before you go to bed is incredibly significant. This is a golden opportunity to engage your inner mind by focusing on positive thoughts because something truly powerful happens during this period.
At first, practicing these methods might feel like a chore, but once you get the hang of it, it becomes both enjoyable and effortless. Over time, these practices can naturally become an integral part of your life.
Many people make the mistake of trying to do too much when they start using LOA techniques. They dive into countless books and experiment with multiple methods, but most fail to stay consistent. That’s why I will focus on just three simple bedtime techniques here—methods that are easy to follow and designed to help you build a long-term habit.
Before diving into the techniques, I want to explain why this specific time before you fall asleep is so crucial. It’s when your subconscious mind is most receptive, making it the perfect moment to plant the seeds of your desires in your creative mind. Continue reading
This post has been on my mind for quite a few days now, especially since I have noticed an alarming surge in new manifestation techniques that claim to work fast. It’s disheartening to witness the proliferation of these methods on social media, often promoted for personal gain, while people are led to believe in unrealistic promises.
What truly saddens me is the perpetuation of misinformation, which not only disappoints individuals but also closes the doors that could lead them to genuine personal growth. Occasionally, these methods can serve as a starting point for personal development, but this only happens when individuals delve deeper into the potential of their own minds and creative abilities.
Unfortunately, most people lose hope after being let down by such impractical promises. It’s crucial to encourage a more balanced and informed approach to personal development, one that doesn’t rely on unrealistic shortcuts but instead empowers individuals to explore their true potential.
Some individuals might wonder what’s wrong with a method that claims to provide instant or rapid results. I have observed many dogmatic groups that blindly praise such methods without even trying them properly, echoing “it works” like a parrot, even when it’s not effective because they’ve been told to have faith in the technique. The issue here is that they fail to realize that if believing in something were so easy, why would they even need a method? Every personal development approach, in one way or another, works on a person’s beliefs. It’s like cleaning one’s spectacles rather than attempting to clean what is seen. However, these quick manifestation methods suggest something entirely different; they ask you to deceive yourself and force belief in something. There lies the difference—altering your beliefs versus attempting to delude yourself into believing something else.
When you use specific techniques to work your inner limiting beliefs, you naturally change your perspective by instilling a new set of ideas in your powerful subconscious mind. However, when you attempt to trick yourself with a superficial, magic spell-like approach to these laws of attraction-based methods, you’re setting yourself up for failure. That’s why I’m now going to provide you with some compelling reasons why you should steer clear of the quick manifestation scams that are widely popular these days.
Imagine waking up in an entirely different world where everything – your house, bank balance, friends, job, etc. – is entirely different, but you remain the same. I have been fascinated by the theory of parallel worlds to the extent that, at one point in my life, I was ready with a fictional storybook about it, which I may write someday. Today, I’m here to explain to you the concept of the multiverse and how various scientific theories and phenomena like quantum mechanics suggest that the existence of parallel worlds might be more than mere speculation or the imagination of a fiction writer.
I’ve come across numerous stories about people experiencing parallel worlds on Reddit and Quora. We can’t simply dismiss these accounts as lies or attribute them to some sort of psychological issue. If something like that were to happen to us, no one would believe us, and they would put us in the same category. The truth is subjective; your experience, coupled with your perspective on that experience, forms your truth. That’s why it’s essential to respect people’s opinions, no matter if their experiences feel real to you or not. I’m not advocating for promoting wild theories like reality shifting, which has been propagated using outlandish ideas about shifting consciousness to a world of your choice, causing a buzz on social media and perplexing teenagers these days. However, when someone shares their experiences, no matter how bizarre it may seem, we shouldn’t be quick to judge. Many tales related to aliens, ghosts, angels, etc., are often not shared due to the fear of ridicule. However, the subjective experience, regardless of whether it is objectively genuine or not, should be considered for serious discussion without disrespecting the person sharing it.
Suppose these theories are not just ideas but reality. Is there a probability that some other version of myself exists in another universe? Would I be the same person as I am in this reality there? These are some questions that I will try to answer with the help of this discussion. Continue reading
In a previous post long ago, I discussed mirror gazing meditation (Mirror Trataka), and in this article, I will introduce a simple ritual that I have personally developed to enhance self-confidence. Although it is not a traditional meditation method, it merges spiritual insights with techniques that I have previously utilized. Practiced with wholehearted commitment, this approach has the potential to significantly transform your self-perception and outlook on life.
So, this isn’t your typical mirror-gazing meditation. No need to stress about trying to stay super focused on your reflection or avoiding distractions. Instead, it’s a straightforward ritual inspired by popular personal development techniques like mirror work and positive self-talk. Plus, it takes a page from an ancient Hawaiian ritual, which I will dive into in this post later on. I am not here to guarantee it’ll work for everyone. I am just sharing an exercise I personally have used and have seen benefits from, hoping it might do the same for you.
In one of his iconic speeches, the legendary figure in the field of self-improvement, Bob Proctor (may his soul rest in peace), whose work initially inspired me on my personal development journey, discussed a powerful ritual related to altering one’s self-image.
According to Bob Proctor, this ritual was something taught to Napoleon Hill (the author of the book “Think and Grow Rich“) by Dale Carnegie. The process involves mentally or verbally repeating a statement involving a person who inspires you, twice a day for at least 30 days. For instance, if your goal is to become a successful stock trader and your idol is Warren Buffett, you’d look into the mirror and say something like, “Warren Buffett, I’m not only going to match your achievements in life, but I’m going to challenge you at the post and surpass you at the grandstand.” This exercise is impactful, and while I won’t disclose the name I used, rest assured that the day I surpass that figure, you will know for sure, lol! Continue reading