How to Deal with Controlling People Using 6 Simple Ways
Is someone in your life creating trouble for you by being too much controlling? If yes, then this post will help you to learn how to deal with controlling people.
The ways I am going to share with you here is something I believe everyone must be aware of because we all have to face people with controlling attitude in our lives.
Some people enjoy playing power games and dramas to manipulate the mind of others, they can also get aggressive or abusive to make others do what they want.
In most such cases those who fall into such people’s trap are actually allowing themselves to be controlled by others due to some kind of dependency or one’s own deeper emotional issues.
It is possible that someone might be having a psychological cause due to which they unconsciously harbors a need to be controlled by others and in that case it would be wise to seek a professional help.
However, if you are emotionally alright then by developing the 6 fundamental personality traits that I am going to discuss below, you can easily protect yourself from toxic people. Continue reading
How to Make a Vision Board That Really Works
In this post, I will be showing you how to make a vision board that really works because that is something which confuses people the most once they get to know about the workings of the vision boards.
First of all, I would like to tell you that there is nothing in the vision boards or anything outside of you that affects your reality, it is within you.
So, the right way of using any method depends on how you are feeling while doing it, if you feel good then continue with it if not, then try next.
The way to create vision boards that I am going to share with you here will surely work for you if you will do it properly, it is simple and it is effective but, requires your consistent efforts. Continue reading
How to Use the Law of Attraction for Money Making
In this post, I will be discussing how to use the law of attraction for money-making since it is a very essential part of our lives. However, most people in the world find it uncomfortable to talk about money openly and they are the ones who don’t thrive financially.
Especially, when you are into the money mindset building materials you may have to face many people who don’t believe that it is possible to attract money or those who think that it is wrong to have a desire for money.
So, first of all, I urge you to feel totally at peace with your desire to earn a lot of money because that’s essential for your financial growth. How? I believe this post will answer that question.
We have sets of beliefs rooted in our subconscious minds which decides “how we can earn”, “how much we can earn”, “how much we can spend”, “how much we can save” etc, etc.
Trust me, I would have never accepted the idea of being a blogger and earning through online business in the past but, today I have cleared my old beliefs so, I have achieved what was impossible for me earlier. (You can read my post to know more about this here – The Law of Attraction and My Online Business Success Story))
Below I will discuss a few common beliefs that block your financial abundance and at the bottom of this article, I will give you a few tips on how to clear them. Continue reading
7 Very Important Lucid Dreaming Tips for Beginners
If you are new to lucid dreaming and you are struggling to induce a lucid dream then the 7 lucid dreaming tips for beginners that I am going to share here will equip you with some essential information that will make it easier for you to have a conscious dream very soon.
The ability to induce lucid dreams varies from person to person because the subconscious mind of different people behaves differently and our dreams are handled by our subconscious mind.
It is true that once we get aware that we are dreaming we can control our dreams and do what we want but, for that also we need to develop a strong rapport with our subconscious mind as it can collapse the dream, wake us up, or trick us into a new dream once we become conscious inside a dream.
This rapport can be developed with practice but some people’s subconscious mind has less resistance to letting them become conscious while dreaming and that is why they are able to lucid dream easily.
It took me about 4 months of continuous efforts to have my first lucid dream (way too longer than the average cases).
One day I shared my experiences and knowledge about lucid dreaming with my friend. You know what? This friend of mine had a lucid dream the very next night after I shared all this stuff with him and that was the first time ever he came to know about this concept!
Obviously, I felt disgusted about how this could happen. However, I learned a very good lesson about lucid dreaming from that particular incident which is what I consider the most important thing to know for a beginner.
I will reveal that in the last but, first allow me to share the other basic tips:- Continue reading
How to Deal with Someone with Depression?-Right Ways to Support
In this post, we will see how to deal with someone with depression because it is very important to be aware of the right behavior that one must adapt while dealing with a depressed person in order to avoid troubles that could arise from the differences in emotional states between them.
I would first like to clarify that I am not a therapist or a doctor and whatever I am going to discuss with you here is something which I have learned from different sources and my own experiences.
Depression is a very serious affliction and it equally affects the closed ones of the individual suffering from it because it makes them frustrated due to their inability to offer any appropriate help.
It is not only your responsibility to support your beloved one who is suffering from this illness but, it is also very essential for their recovery, although it may seem like you can’t help them.
What you find as your incapability in helping that person is actually your lack of understanding of the true situation.
You can only do any good to a person having depression when you act by keeping in mind a few things.
I am going to write those points below that will enable you to offer true support to a person with this emotional trouble:- Continue reading
The Law of Attraction and My Online Business Success Story
Readers of my blog often write to me to know about my success with the law of attraction so, today I am going to share my online business success story with you as there is nothing in my experience till now which comes close to this achievement when it is about using my creative ability.
People love to read LOA success stories because they are trying to clear their doubts by reading the experiences of others.
Honestly, knowing my story won’t help any person to fortify their faith in their creative power because for that they would have to collect their own evidences.
But I know that people get motivated by reading the real life stories and that’s why I am going to share my story here.
This post is not just for people who are interested in metaphysics but, it is also for those who believe in following their passion.
I have a long list of what I have attracted in my life using the universal laws, but here I am going to share something which matters a lot to me.
Some uncanny events have also occurred in my life where I attracted some small/big events and things but, I always wanted to share an experience which makes sense to everyone.
This is a journey that began in the year 2013 and it involves my growth in spirituality, skills, self-love, knowledge and finance. Continue reading
How to Raise Your Vibrational Frequency Level-Simple Methods
In this post, I am going to show you how to raise your vibrational frequency level using some techniques which you can perform on your own.
If you want to attract favorable situations in life, live joyfully, have good relationships, be healthy and have financial freedom then you will have to understand about your energy system which decides how your reality gets shaped.
There is a particular vibrational frequency level to our energy at any given point of time and everything gets manifested in our lives which matches with this frequency, that’s law of attraction’s true mechanism.
In order to make some positive changes in our lives we will have to actively do something to raise the vibrational state of our energy. Continue reading
What Is Meditation and How to Do It – In Simple Terms
In this post, I am going to explain what is meditation and show you a simple method using which you could perform it even if you have never done it before.
Unlike earlier, meditation has become very popular nowadays, especially due to many new studies that are illuminating the benefits of meditation.
With popularity, myths and misconceptions about this process have also increased.
People have formed their own opinions about meditation and these false notions have become a huge barrier in the path of spiritual progress of this generation.
It is quite obvious – How can a person do something if they are unsure about what they are trying to do?
Another thing that makes me sad is that people have so many speculative judgments about meditation, many a times I have been viewed as a weird guy when I talk about it in front of my friends. Well, I don’t really mind that because for me being “weird” is a natural state whereas what we consider “normal” is actually a mask that people wear to fit into the society.
It is easy to form an opinion about this process, but if you are someone who genuinely wants to know about meditation then I do have something so simple and basic to share which might help you.
Meditation
What is the most essential thing to know about meditation is that it is not a “concept” or “belief” which you can understand using your logical mind, instead it is a natural state which can only be experienced.
This might sound so simple but that’s the truth – Meditation is the state of being completely present in the moment.
What being present in the “now” moment means is to get free of the “self-talks” and become attentive to what you are doing right now.
So, a kid playing hide and seek being fully involved in the game is experiencing deeper meditation than a person sitting in lotus posture in Himalayas with their mind saying “yes I am meditating!”.
Purpose of meditation is to maintain the state of “thoughtless awareness”, where you are so intensely focused in the “Now” moment that thoughts ceases to exist there.
It is all about being aware of the present moment and that’s why I promote mindfulness exercises.
A Simple Meditation Technique for Everyone
As I have discussed above, we will just try to become more present in the moment by doing this without aiming for any “special state”.
When it comes to meditation, there is no destination to reach.
The thoughtless awareness state to which I referred earlier is not any future event for which you have to strive, it is something which happens automatically when you are highly alert of your inner happenings.
Your meditation is successful even if you get to stay there for 10-20 seconds during the whole session (don’t keep track of time, I am just using an example).
Please don’t form a conclusion that you have to stop your thoughts, you should never try to do that.
Your job is to be aware of your mind activities as much as possible and your attentiveness will naturally slow down the thought stream.
The Procedure
Before meditating don’t keep your stomach full, but also ensure that you are not hungry or thirsty.
Sitting in crossed legged position (lotus posture) is recommended but, you can prefer a posture that is comfortable to you, just make sure to keep your spine erect.
Now, take a few deep breaths for about 5 minutes or till you feel relaxed. Start observing your thoughts without getting actively involved in it, you will lose your alertness every now and then, but don’t regret about that because it is completely natural even for those who have meditated for years.
Try to maintain your awareness by just watching the thoughts come and go, once you will learn to maintain the heightened awareness with practice, you will fluctuate from “thoughtlessness” to “thoughts” frequently.
As a beginner, in every session it will take time for you to even discern that you are carried away by your thoughts, but your progress will be determined by how quickly you are able to become alert once again.
This doesn’t mean that you have to forcefully do it so that you can master it quickly because it is impossible master it.
There is no end to the spiritual growth unless one gets enlightened, however we can never know if there really is some state such as enlightenment until we get there. We are just doing this to safeguard our “inner peace” from the external influences.
Meditation is about surrendering not fighting, don’t make a mistake of feeling disheartened because you find yourself mesmerized by thoughts. Be happy that you at least know that your mind is highly dominated by thoughts unlike earlier when you were totally unaware of it like most people.
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Clearing Negative Karma – 4 Mind Cleansing Techniques
In this post, I will be talking about clearing negative karma so that you can avoid many possible undesired events in your life caused by your past experiences.
Whenever “Karma” is mentioned, people get an image of a ghost in their mind that haunts them to punish for what they have done in the past whereas in reality, it is just a universal law for which there is no such thing as “good” or “bad”.
Nothing from outside shapes our reality and even the negative events that occur in our lives are a result of our own unconscious thoughts.
What Is Karma and Can We Get Rid of It?
Karma in simple definition is “action” so, this law which is also referred as the law of cause and effect works according to the thought impressions present in our energy.
These thought impressions are formed in a person’s mind as a result of their own actions or their reaction to any event. Continue reading
Creative Visualization for Children-A Childhood Gift
Unlike us, kids are not too concerned about the future events. Momentarily, they may get upset when they don’t get what they want but, they have the tendency to forget about it easily and that’s why I would emphasis that creative visualization for children should be an unscripted process.
Kids are naturally gifted with the creative ability, we all were excellent in using our imagination to create the dream atmosphere for our playtime. If you will take a live example of any group of kids playing, you will find that there are a lot of imaginative elements being incorporated in their games.
Most of us forget to enjoy our dream world as we grow up because our society doesn’t encourage such habits.
Today, we are realizing that visualization is one of the most potent mind tools available to us however the essential qualities needed to make proper use of it is something we need to acquire with practice.
Actually, it is not a learning process but, an unlearning process.
It’s true that we cannot do anything about what has happened to us in the past but, we can surely help the young ones of our generation. Continue reading