Author Archives: HARI S NAIR
Author Archives: HARI S NAIR
The five personal development books for kids that I am going to suggest you here will help you to teach your kids the most important principles and the right way of thinking that will fill their future with great possibilities.
Children have a mind that is easily influenced by what is repeatedly told to them or things that evoke strong feelings in them, and all this becomes their truth, which decides how their life is going to be shaped.
So the wisest thing parents can do to ensure a good future for their kids is to help them in building a positive mindset by telling them good stories, making them feel special and being a good example for them.
Beliefs that we have in our subconscious mind is what creates our reality and these beliefs were formed due to the type of information our mind received when we were kids, so the simplest way to make your kid a winner is to help him/her to form empowering beliefs.
You can do this by encouraging them to read books that will expose their minds to great ideas and thoughts. This can also be done by learning the right principles that you can teach them as a parent. Sometimes, being a parent who emanates positive vibes can be the best thing to do because kids learn most of the stuff by observing their parents. Continue reading
Manifesting your desires quickly is a possible thing depending upon your own beliefs about what you have asked for, but sometimes these instant achievements can help you build a stronger faith in your creative power.
Quick manifestations are happening all the times in our lives; we just need be more alert in order to discern it. We all wish for so many things in life, however, only a few of us believe that our wishes will be granted by the universe or the higher power we believe in.
If you are someone who believes in the universal laws like the law of attraction then you probably understand the power of intention and that intending itself is a step in the creative process.
You can form an abundance mindset by believing in your ability to create your reality or you can allow yourself to fall into the scarcity mentality, the choice is yours.
However, if you are willing to create a life of your desires, you must believe that universe grants your wishes.
This type of conviction cannot be formed using surface level thinking because we need evidence to develop faith. This is why sometimes we need to wish for small things to see if we really have any control over our reality.
I am not discouraging you that you should not aim high, you must, but you should also set short-term goals that are easy to achieve to see the power of your thoughts.
However, this post is about something else, it is about the wishes we make and then forget. Continue reading
Mastering the art of lucid dreaming is the tagline of Andrew Holecek’s new program and in this Dream Sculpting review, I will be giving you a detailed information and my honest opinion about this product so that you could decide if it is going to fulfill your purpose or not.
This is the only lucid dreaming online course in which I found this skill being taught from the perspective of spiritual development and self-growth rather than for just enjoying the virtual world.
Obviously, as a beginner you may be having a plethora of stuff to do in your dream world, which you will surely be able to learn using this program, but once you have reached to a place where you want to achieve something higher than just surface level fantasies, you start seeing lucid dreaming from a totally different angle.
That is what happened to me, I have been lucid dreaming from a long time but I always wanted to use this skill to know more about my inner mind, I wanted to communicate with my inner being and get spiritual insights in my dreams.
I must say, dream sculpting program was a game changer for me, it took my lucid dreaming skills to a different level. That does not mean that it is not meant for beginners, some of my readers have reported great success with this program in getting their first few vivid lucid dreaming experiences. Continue reading
I have been doing a very interesting time travel meditation in the past few days which has me helped a lot to clear any kind of negative feelings that I still have in my inner world about any particular phase of my life from the past.
This is much similar to the holographic memory release technique, but since I have learned another way of releasing negative energies, I came up with this method which I found is perfect for me.
It allows one to detach themselves from all the thoughts caused by a past event which is still one of the main reasons for their problems in any particular area of their life.
This meditation includes various exercises I have learned from different materials, it can even match to any other practice used by people but all I want to say is that this one is really powerful because, in a way, it changes you since you are letting your past burdens go by doing this.
Have you ever wondered what the subconscious mind is? Is that an assumption based concept for psychological studies or if exists as a separate entity than our conscious mind.
There was a time when subconscious mind used to be a thing in psychology books and therapist were most interested in knowing how it works, but these days every person interested in self-growth is coming to know about it.
Despite reading a lot about the subconscious mind, I used to be a little confused about its exact definition because hypothetically we can discuss such stuff in detail but when someone desires to get a simple explanation of such complicated and hyped stuff, it becomes a bit difficult to come up with an answer that can satisfy them.
After doing a good research I consider myself prepared to answer this question to anyone who asks me about the inner mind (and I get such questions a lot), so here I will provide you an answer to it based on my understanding hoping that it will be helpful to you.
But unlike me, you will make your buying decision after knowing the truth about this product because you are reading a user review of it here.
Whenever I come across a new personal development product, I get a slight idea of what I will be getting if I buy the program but in this case, I was totally confused.
Few audio tracks that take your mind to theta frequency and reprograms it to think in a way that manifestation happens naturally, it is like saying you go to a magician and he gives you a magic wand…wooooo..and you become Harry Potter..sounds exactly like that doesn’t it?
How in the world can some sounds make you very good in achieving whatever you want from your life? I will try to answer it based on what I feel about this whole thing.
In truth, I reached to a conclusion that 15-minute manifestation program is a scam but my opinion changed after I tried the product, I will explain it to you later. Continue reading
The updated form of Ho’oponopono also known as the “Self I-Dentity through Ho’oponopono “(SITH) is a very amazing kind of spiritual healing technique based on which Dr. Joe Vitale wrote his very famous book “zero limits” following which he has then produced numerous program to teach people about this method which includes one latest program that I found last year called “The Ho’oponoopono Certification Course” where he provides online lessons as well certification so that people can professionally use this method to help others.
If you are completely new to this process then it may sound very strange to you because of its simplicity and also unbelievable due to the stories associated with it.
See, back in the year 2006, Joe Vitale came across a mind-blowing story about a person named Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len who healed a whole ward of mental patients using this ancient Hawaiian method without even seeing them!
That’s crazy, right? And it was a ward full of patients who were very dangerous, the staff count reduced due to this, but this psychologist changed all of their behaviors with a simple technique, how can that be possible? Well, I really don’t know but Joe decided to investigate more on this matter and that’s how this technique became so popular.
I love reading about the ways to enhance our mind abilities in big and small ways to get better at what we do and these mind hacks that I am about share with you are what I have used successfully in various situations.
It is amazing how we can have more control over our lives by learning the methods that make our powerful mind to work in our favor.
Some of these techniques will make perfect sense to you, but there are others that cannot be understood using rational thinking since it works by altering the subconscious mind’s behavior.
Our mind is so powerful that it can make all our goals achievable, only if know how to tap into the power of subconscious mind.
A few these methods that I am going to share will work on a deeper level than what is discernible and that’s why I want you to try it for yourself before you make any conclusion about it.
Here are the awesome mind hacks that you can use to stay a step ahead in life always: –
This is a very interesting one folks; you can use a chewing gum to alleviate your nervousness to a great extent.
Okay, back in my college days I was very obsessed by snooker and there was one player who used to dominate in all the clubs I knew. I noticed something about him that whenever he reaches to a crucial point in the game, he will pull out a chewing gum from his pocket and start chewing it before making his next move.
Now I know how it helped him, it was enabling him to stay relaxed!
Studies have shown that it can reduce anxiety and increase memory recall, but I have seen it working well for dealing with nervousness until now.
We smile when we are happy, a natural reaction that is hard to hide when we are feeling a lot of positive emotions right?
Well, what’s astonishing is that we can reverse this process. Yes, you can become happy by smiling.
Our mind is wired to release “happy” chemicals when we smile since it has associated “smiling” with “happiness”.
Next time you feel sad, try to put a long smile on your face and see what happens.
Accept it or not, we all want to be in control whenever we want something from others, but in most cases, people either give away their power or come up as a total jerk by trying to manipulate the other person in such situations.
The secret to making others do what you want is to make them believe that they are in control of the situation. This is very helpful for parents while dealing with their kids.
So what you should do is to formulate your words by giving them options that are constrained by what you want them to do.
For example, if you want a busy friend to go to a movie with you on the weekend you will first ask something like “which movie do you think would be better to watch on the big screen, Suicide Squad or Mechanic? Now, after they have answered, you will next ask “Alright then let’s watch it together this weekend!”
I am not saying that this will always work, but it is better than asking directly. What happens is that the other person will have to go against his own opinion in order to deny your request, which is often a very difficult task for us humans.
As kids, our authority figures used to make us do the boring tasks by luring us using great rewards.
It could be cookies for doing the homework or permission to play video games for cleaning the room; we were programmed to beat procrastination by the desire to get something we love in return.
We all may have grown up enough that no one can fool us like that anymore, but our subconscious is still and always be a kid.
If you will closely observe, when we procrastinate, we are saying to ourselves something like this “today I will watch a movie, and I will finish this task tomorrow at any cost” and guess what? Tomorrow never comes.
This way our thoughts are working against us and though we want to do something useful, we end up wasting our time.
All you have to do is to reverse this thought – “Pleasure before work” to “Work before pleasure” using what our authority figures used to do.
Make something you love as a reward for doing the task and be very strict about not allowing yourself to get it before you finish the work.
Right now, I will be watching a movie after completing this post!
This way brain associates something pleasurable at the end point of your immediate work and it will start working in your favor.
Some of you might have already realized this; we get better at anything by teaching it to others once we have learned it. This one is especially for students and learners.
I had a scholar friend who used to love teaching others before exams and that made him an expert at whatever subject he choose.
Teaching is a task that our mind finds a lot more interesting than learning, but it has to be good at learning in order to teach.
See, if you will learn something for some future purpose of yours, your mind won’t be that much interested in it. But if you will do it for helping others you will find yourself more focused.
The reason behind this is an ego need, we love to be seen as a “good helpful person” and we can use this need consciously as an advantage.
I know many people don’t like to hear such words, they believe we should be “who we are” and not pretend to be someone else, I agree with that, we should be “who we are”.
But, who are we?
There is no proper way to define one’s identity; I have shown this to many people practically who are actually willing to know their truth that there is no truth “we are who we believe we are” and nothing else.
That being said, call it a new age mantra or psychological trick, we can alter everything about ourselves by acting as our “ideal self”, that’s a tough process when we aim too high but small changes can be made right away.
So, if you want to be more confident “act as a confident person” or if you want to be more attractive “believe and act as if you are attractive”.. This really works, gradually your behavior will change according to your new beliefs and you will soon realize that you have become what you wanted to be.
With the technological advancement, most of us have forgotten that there used to be something called the paper, but our subconscious mind has not.
Studies have shown that those who write things down on a paper in order to remember it do have a very high chance of recalling it afterward in comparison to people who use the other ways.
This is another psychological hack that you can use to get things done from others, I absolutely love how it works, but please use it only when you have any serious need rather than for exploiting others.
What this method is all about is that you can make others to like you and do you a big favor if you can make them fulfill your small requests first.
Our brain wiring makes us to like people for whom we have done any kind of favor because we justify our own actions by convincing ourselves that the person is good and deserves that favor.
On contrary to what people believe “if I do them a favor they will return it”, they will instead be doing more work for the same people over and over again.
Sharing and helping is the key to joy. I am not asking you to be unkind, but I also want you to be aware of this fact.
Here’s the final one, and I love it. I got to know about this when I was reading a book for reviewing purpose named “the instant switch“.
I have been using it ever since, although many times I don’t get time or feel sleepy, however, I know it works!
Just try to take a short 10-20 minute nap in the afternoons before 4 pm and you will gain the energy to stay active for the rest of your day.
This is a perfect solution for people who get tired after the half day mark, make it a habit and your body will automatically feel sleepy at that time, it will also wake you up after 10-15 minutes once you get used to it.
It is far more effective than a cup of coffee, but you need a bit patience to make yourself accustomed to such naps.
I hope you enjoyed the article. I would repeat what I said in the point number 6 again, our inner beliefs make us who we are and I use energy block clearing methods for altering my limiting subconscious beliefs which I believe can work for you as well.
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Our mind starts believing what we repeatedly think or say, that’s why I am going to write a few powerful positive affirmations for students here because when you are in the process of learning something, you want to make maximum use of your mind’s abilities for accomplishing your goals.
We all have a very powerful subconscious mind that controls every aspect of our lives and when we fail to achieve what we desire, it happens due to the limiting beliefs present in our subconscious mind. Continue reading
I have been using the ancient Hawaiian technique for a long time so I decided to know more about it using this new product “Ho’oponopono Practitioner Certification” from Joe Vitale and in this review, I will be giving you a detailed information on this product and my honest opinion in order to help you with the buying decision.
The course is all about reaching a state that the authors define as the “zero state”. If you believe
If you believe in the universal laws that say that your thoughts are responsible for your reality then you will definitely like this course.
This product is based on the knowledge of the ancient Hawaiian Ho’oponopono process provided by Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len who is popular for the story of healing a whole group of mentally unstable patients using this method. The information was brought to light by Dr. Joe Vitale and Mathew Dixon, after practicing and helping thousands of people using this technique they are now making this knowledge available to all of us through this certification course. Continue reading