Author Archives: HARI S NAIR
Author Archives: HARI S NAIR
I have written various articles on this subject like the post named “Make them winners”, I will leave more links at the bottom of this post. I am writing this post because I have an urge to tell this to the parents who are searching things like “making your kid a genius” or “making your kid smart” over the internet since I saw a relative of my friend checking out various channels on youtube to get tips for making her kids smart.
One thing that every parent should understand is that we don’t have to do anything externally to boost up the learning process of kids instead we should introduce them to more learning opportunities, human brain develops in a similar manner for all kids it is only that the environment in which it develops decides its nature in the future.
Looking at few kids who are naturally smart and learn everything quickly makes us to think that these little genius minds are special with god gifted skills, this isn’t true.
Every child is equally blessed and gifted; it is their surrounding which determines their abilities when they are growing up. Human mind is very much like a plant seed, it grows depending on its environment and the type of nurturing it gets.
Human mind is often distinguished in two parts for the ease of understanding the concept of human behavior as the conscious mind and the subconscious mind.
The conscious mind is our waking mind and the subconscious mind is the mind which determines all our behaviors, the subconscious mind is programmed mostly when we were kid and our life depends on this mind programming.
By “programming” I mean here the set of beliefs that are imposed on the little minds by their family, friends and society. Any belief or idea implanted in these raw minds will come into fruition as it develops.
This reason why a child picks up the traits of its family members is due to this fact. A mathematician’s kid’s mind picks up its parent’s belief that “math is easy” which later turns him as a genius mathematician as well.
So, in order to make your kid smart you will have to plant the seeds of smartness in his mind, in order to make him wealthy you will have to plant the seeds of wealth in his mind and to make him successful in all other areas you will have to do the same.
Training your kid’s mind is easy, a baby’s mind readily accepts the ideas that you repeatedly introduce to it. So, if you will give suggestions to them like “you are smart”, “you are healthy” etc then their mind will readily accept that idea and start to work accordingly to make it true.
Keep a positive attitude when you are around your kid and encourage them to use their imagination, creative visualization is a natural gift to children but as they grow up they tend to forget it because our society doesn’t encourage a person to dream.
More important than trying to teach something to kids at an early age is to tell them how special and amazing they are. By providing them an environment which consists of positive beliefs you can make your child build an abundance mindset and their life will be shaped in accordance with these beliefs.
If you believe in the concept that’s called the law of attraction then you might be knowing that in order to make your child a winner you have to teach them about the tools and methods to achieve their goals if you are looking for a course or program for this purpose then I would suggest you trying out the product “Law of Attraction for Kids”.
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We all have always faced situations where we hear two opposing voices in our head especially at times when we have to make important decisions.
At all such times we have differentiated those chattering inside our head as the fight between our heart and mind, no doubt that everyone must have wondered which voice is the one that is showing them the right path.
The voice of our inner guidance that comes from our higher self which knows what is the right in every small and big situations of our life is hard to be recognized till we haven’t learned how to listen to it, but once we have started to identify it then listening to it becomes as easy as it is to breathe.
In this post I am going to discuss with you the differences between those two voices which will enable you to make intuition based decisions.
Let us first talk about the voice of our ego because by knowing its nature you could easily detect what is not the right thing to do for your well being.
The ego’s talk brings a heavy feeling with it; you are not at ease when you are listening to it.
Usually this voice tries to forcefully make you act and it disturbs your mind by listing a million reasons which shows how not acting on what it says will affect you badly in the future.
You might be thinking here that looking at the pros and cons of a decision to be made is logical and necessary, but this voice is more like a noise which wants to convince you to take the action which it is suggesting.
Ego’s voice does not always suggest a single decision and many a times it finds satisfaction in confusing you and causing a chaotic mental state for you.
Listening to your intuition is a real gift; it guides you properly to the path which is best for you and many successful people agrees to this that listening to their heart’s voice is their real secret.
Unlike your ego’s tactic to make you hear what it says, intuition doesn’t try to get your attention instead it reveals itself to you only when you intentionally want to hear what it says.
Your inner guidance is not available to you when your mind is too confused, worried or restless.
In order to know what your heart is saying you will have to calm down the mind chattering and sit peacefully with a strong intention to hear it.
The voice of intuition brings a light, peaceful and serene feeling with it; since you are not aware of the bigger picture so, temporarily it may seem illogical and following it may appear difficult but once you start to trust it and learn how to make intuition based choices then you will become familiar with its nature.
Your heart’s voice doesn’t argue or try to prove itself right to you like your ego; instead it just reveals itself when you are ready to hear it and then vanishes when you start to analyze it letting you decide further.
I would like to advise you to meditate a few minutes every day so that you could calm your mind and listen what your inner guidance is suggesting.
If you are very serious about developing your intuition then I would like to suggest you Sonia Choquette’s Positive Intuition.
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The Law of Attraction is no longer seen as just a “magic trick” or some kind of wishful thinking. Today, more people around the world are awakening to the truth that it’s a powerful universal law—one that helps you attract people, opportunities, and outcomes that match the energy and vibrations you send out through your thoughts, emotions, and beliefs.
However there are still many misconceptions about the whole manifestation process because the universal laws requires a deeper understanding of it works for one to be able to use them properly. I have written a plethora posts on the law of attraction because this one law is widely misunderstood by people these days, from using LOA to attract money from my personal experience of building a successful online business I have shared a lot of posts with my readers here in this blog however this post covers a different topic related to this subject.
In this post, I’m excited to share my personal experience using the Law of Attraction for weight loss—specifically, how I created a clear plan and manifested my goal of losing 20 kilograms. This journey taught me that manifestation isn’t about sitting back and waiting—it’s about aligning your mindset with action. Whether you’re looking to shed extra weight, build financial abundance, or attract success in your career, this principle applies to every area of life. And trust me—it works even better when you combine belief with a plan.
Yet, there’s one crucial step that many people overlook when practicing the Law of Attraction: planning. That’s because a lot of us misinterpret the popular advice to “not worry about how it will happen.” We assume this means we shouldn’t think about the steps at all—which isn’t true. In the next section, I’ll explain why not worrying about the how is very different from avoiding action or planning altogether, and how understanding this distinction can change everything.
One of the biggest misunderstandings when it comes to the Law of Attraction is the idea that you don’t need to think about how your desire will come to you.
While it’s true that you shouldn’t stress or obsess over the exact path, it doesn’t mean you sit back and do nothing.
In almost every book, program, or video about the Law of Attraction, we’re told to ‘trust the process’ or ‘trust the universe.’ While that advice is important, what’s often missing is the understanding that our minds naturally start to doubt our dreams when there’s no clear plan in place. It doesn’t have to be a perfect or detailed plan—just something that gives our mind a sense of direction and helps us feel like we’re moving forward. Even small, simple steps can calm the inner doubt and reinforce our belief that what we desire is truly possible.
There’s a subtle but powerful difference between:
Let me give you an example from my weight loss journey. I didn’t know exactly how I would lose 20 kgs, but I started taking small, consistent actions—like daily walks and healthier meals. Those actions made me feel aligned with my vision. They built confidence and gave my subconscious the message: “This is happening.”
The Universe doesn’t need you to know the full plan. It just needs you to believe it’s possible and start moving in the right direction. Even if you take just one small step, that’s often enough to shift your energy and attract new opportunities, people, or ideas that bring your goal closer.
So remember:
You don’t need to figure out the whole staircase—just take the first step. – Martin Luther King Jr.
Taking action is not “doubting” the LOA—it’s a way of showing the Universe that you’re ready and willing to receive.
If you’ve explored the Law of Attraction (LOA) before, you’ve probably come across the advice to set big, bold goals—ones that stretch beyond what feels easily achievable. But here’s the catch: if you don’t believe that your goal is achievable, you won’t be able to manifest it.
It sounds like a paradox, right?
On one hand, LOA teaches us not to worry about the “how.” On the other, it says that belief is essential. So how can you believe in the arrival of something when you can’t see the path?
Here’s the truth: it’s not as complicated as it seems. The key is to set goals that stretch your comfort zone but still feel possible.
Let’s say you are using the law of attraction to attract money, you currently earn $10,000 a month. If you aim for $12,000, it’s a logical step and might not stretch you too much. But aiming for $20,000? That pushes your mindset beyond your current limits—yet it still feels within the realm of possibility. Even if you don’t know how you’ll get there, it opens the door for your subconscious mind to start working toward new ideas, opportunities, and actions.
Let me share something personal. A while back, I had been struggling with my weight and energy levels. I had read all about the Law of Attraction and believed in its power—but still wasn’t seeing real results. That’s when I decided to combine LOA with a practical, flexible plan.
I mapped out what I wanted:
I didn’t start with a rigid or overwhelming strategy. Instead, I set a realistic goal—to lose 20 kgs over time—and began visualizing myself at that ideal weight every day. But here’s the game-changer: I paired that visualization with a daily plan.
Nothing fancy. Just:
By planning, I gave my conscious mind a “how,” which reduced doubt and resistance. The LOA kicked in as I started attracting supportive people, new workout ideas, and even found myself wanting to make healthier choices.
Within a few months, I had lost over 20 kgs, and more importantly, I felt aligned inside and out.
I was listening to Christie Marie Sheldon’s Unlimited Abundance course, specifically Session 9, “Clearing Indecision.” In it, she says something powerful:
“Get a plan, get a life.”
She explains that some people have energy blocks around the very idea of “planning.” They associate it with pressure or fear of failure. But planning doesn’t have to be rigid or complicated.
Think of it this way: we operate on two levels—
When you visualize your goal but don’t know how it will happen, your conscious mind may send out messages of doubt. That doubt gets absorbed by your subconscious—and blocks manifestation.
But when you make a plan, even a basic one, your conscious mind relaxes. It feels like, “Okay, we have a direction.” That emotional ease clears the way for your subconscious to start manifesting what you truly want.
The subconscious mind behaves much like a child—it believes whatever the conscious mind tells it, especially when the message is repeated often and paired with emotion. It doesn’t judge or analyze; it simply accepts and acts on what it’s fed. This is where planning becomes incredibly powerful in the manifestation process.
When you take time to create a plan—whether or not you know exactly how everything will unfold—you’re essentially communicating to your subconscious mind that progress is already underway. The act of planning gives your conscious mind a sense of direction, which in turn fools the subconscious (in a good way!) into believing that the goal is achievable and already in motion. This removes doubt and resistance, allowing your energy to stay aligned with the desired outcome.
For example, when I was on my journey to lose 20 kilograms, I didn’t know every single step in advance. But by sitting down and creating a daily routine, setting small milestones, and visualizing my success, my subconscious started working with me instead of against me. Planning bridges the gap between your intention and your manifestation—it reassures your inner system that “Yes, we’re doing this,” even if the full picture isn’t clear yet.
Your plan doesn’t have to be perfect or even highly practical. It just needs to make your dream feel real and achievable to your conscious mind.
Think of your plan like a bridge. You may not know what’s on the other side yet, but once you start walking, the path begins to unfold. The Universe meets you halfway.
Whether your goal is weight loss, financial stability, or finding love, the Law of Attraction works when your belief, emotions, and actions are aligned. Planning is a simple but powerful way to create that alignment.
✨ So go ahead—dream big, plan boldly, and trust that the Universe will guide your steps.
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We have been hearing this from a very long time from numerous well known successful people that trusting the inner voice and following their heart is what leads them to the place where they intend to go in their lives.
What we perceive from our conscious mind is not even near to the half of our true ability; the truth is that we have all the necessary information to make right decision at any given point of time but we are often unaware of it or we fail to hear the voice of our heart.
There have always been incidences in our life where we have experienced this inner power whether let it be an event which you feel that you have already experienced (Déjà vu), a song sung by another person which you were just thinking, a gut feeling which provided the right answer etc all these are examples of our mind’s true abilities.
In her program “Tune In”, Sonia Choquette teaches how to tap into the power of your intuition and use it to get necessary solutions in life.
Having a developed intuitive awareness is really a very precious gift in one’s life. Intuition is not something which you learn from outside but it is something which has always been present inside you but you have forgotten it while growing up.
As kids we all have used our intuition for various playful purposes. We cried at certain places by sensing negative vibes, we kept distance from certain people and we were happy to be around pets which clearly indicates that we knew how to use our inner guidance when we were kids.
Having the ability to hear the intuitive voice can help you to make the right decisions at the various important times in your life, not only that but you will be able to intuitively act in every small and big issues of your daily life.
From catching a liar to knowing the truth about anything that’s relevant to you, for improving relationships by doing the right things at the right time, for making the right career decisions , for knowing what’s best for your health and countless similar issues of life can be handled in the most perfect way if you could hear your inner guidance and that is why opting for this program may really prove out to be one of the best decisions of your life.
Since I have already said that we don’t have to learn anything new from outside about intuition as it is has been always present in us then one may ask- how this program could prove to be beneficial?
Intuition is without any doubt our natural ability but as we were growing up our little minds were programmed with concepts which made us to forget about it.Today, we learn about intuition and we try to implement it but we fail because we haven’t yet been able to distinguish the conscious mind’s voice and the inner guidance.
The main factor in successfully using your intuitive guidance system is to trust your inner voice!
Sonia’s “Tune In” will teach you to recognize the inner voice and to trust it.
Her program consists of 14 videos which teach a 4 step formula for living an intuitive life, 4 meditation tracks which enables you to connect with your inner guidance.
The package is a perfect combination of materials which will work step by step for you to awaken your intuitive power.
Sonia is one of the world’s most famous people in the area of human intuition and she is widely recognized for her work to help people to make intuition based decisions in their lives.
Sonia has written 19 bestselling books on the subject of intuition which also includes New York’s times bestseller “The Answer Is Simple”.
I came across Sonia’s program last year, I was so impressed with this product that I contacted mind valley’s affiliate customer support so that I could promote this product for my readers but unfortunately they told me that it was just a test run and I will have to wait for some time.
Now, they have launched this product and I happy to introduce it to you. Trust me with this product you will have nothing to lose but a lot to gain.
I will give you a green signal to opt for this product, hoping that you will also highly benefit from this program.
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The author Barry Joe McDonagh has suffered through panic attacks when he was in college, while dealing with his own panic issues he discovered a way to stop it. Despite not being a psychiatrist or psychologist Barry has helped many people to treat their panic attacks without any need of medications.
Panic away was initially available as just an eBook , the book focused on the one particular technique and it successfully helped many of its readers but there were a lot of people who didn’t get the information properly and failed to benefit from the book.
Keeping this in mind that the information failed to sink in the minds of various readers Barry modified the product with a lot of digital aides like audios and videos.
The new Panic Away program includes videos of demonstration on a woman named Jane who suffers panic attack and the author shows the application of the technique on her with commentary.
Panic Away comes in both digital as well as physical version. The digital material will be available to you right away when you join and if you need the physical version then you will have to wait depending on the shipping time.
The digital version consists of ebook, audios and videos whereas the physical version consists of a book, audio cds and videos cds.
The book revolves around a single technique which is the basic idea behind the whole product. Although there are many different methods given in the book still the core of this whole product is based on a single method.
The book consists of about 70 chapters which covers dealing with various kinds of anxiety disorders which also includes obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD).
The real life case studies presented in the book helps you to relate with the material in a profound manner and it covers various situations like panic attacks in car, home, office etc which gives you a better insight on what you could do while confronted with any such situations.
With his Band Aid approach the author promises that his program works as a long term relief system.
The best thing about this program is that unlike other programs it doesn’t make you to fight against your feelings instead it focuses on embracing the feelings.
The most popular method of panic away program is the author’s 24/7 techniques which you can use anytime and anywhere. It requires you to do a 21 second countdown followed by a 7 second exercise.
Joseph McDonagh says that he has helped people from all walks of life using this 24/7 technique.
Unlike earlier when you had to practice the methods using the data given in the ebook, now you will get a lot of digital aides without much increase in the product price.
With so many people getting relieved of their panic attacks because of this product it has been staying around from a long time getting more popular year after year.
It has received few criticism because of the new age tools that it uses at many places in the program like visualization, affirmation etc but it depends on the buyer to believe and use those methods or to hear what the skeptics have to say and deny the possibility of recovery.
The product promises that it can be used successfully by anyone, but I guess it depends more on the participation and faith of the users which will decide the success rate.
You have nothing to lose here because you will get 60 days refund period, so you can use the methods and decide for yourself.
For more information, you can visit the product website here.
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In this post I am going to share with you some ideas that will teach you how to deal with psychic vampires.
Such people are also called energy vampires because they feed on your positive energy you can find them everywhere-your house, workplace, parties, gyms, markets, shopping malls and wherever you go.
These type of people can come to you and suck your energy before you could even know, they not only drag you into a negative emotional state but they also affect your aura-unless you know how to consciously clear their affect by meditating or using any other spiritual method.
A simple definition of energy vampire would be-People who constantly dwell in extreme negative states and their energy is so contagious that they can affect anyone’s aura within few seconds.
These people are the ones who have a very bad perspective about the world and they are highly driven by their ego. Due to the childhood programming or because of unfair events these people have developed a very bad picture of the world in their mind and they are finding evidences to validate it in every moment.
Unfortunately, these type of people are spiritually underdeveloped and they have totally forgotten their true nature. They have formed a very pitiful self image and they keep on feeding it by getting involved in destructive self talks.
Such people carry a very negative energy around them and they have the ability to pull others into destructive talks which in turn lowers other people’s energy as well. Sometimes such people can affect your energy by just being present around you.
One of the common characteristics of such people is that they love to complain and talk about what is wrong with the world, they are very good at pulling others into such negative talks, they run away from any kind of good discussion or spiritual talks.
These lower energy people often make fun of spiritual people and such wisdom because they unconsciously fear such higher energies.
Before thinking about safety we must first concentrate on recognizing such people, be aware of your energy and emotional state. Without even talking to them you can identify such lower energy people by keeping a watch on your feelings.
Whether let it be a place filled with lower vibrations or people with deleterious vibes, your feelings will tell you. Just move away from people or places where you feel bad…with NO exceptions, just discard what makes you unhappy!
You have the choice to keep yourself away from such people, even if it is not possible to avoid them you can still choose to be detached from their talks or you can keep your energy unaffected by consciously deciding to not participate with them in such talks. When your energy stays unaffected from theirs then they will automatically start to avoid you.
When I opted for Christie Marie Sheldon’s love or above program I came to know that we all form unconscious energy chords with people whom we come in contact with, these chords affect our energy in accordance with the other person’s emotional state.
This is the reason why energy vampires drains us energy wise, we unconsciously form chords with them which keeps our energy in a lower state.
Christie, in her course offers a meditation which is called as cutting chords meditation using which we can detach ourselves from such energy draining chords.
So, be sure to be in good company always because the quality of people you choose affects you in a much deeper level then what’s visible and make sure to keep a distance from people who don’t hold a good opinion about the world.
You can visit the love or above product page here about which I was talking in the above post, even if you don’t decide to buy that product I recommend you to sign up and download the free energy breakthrough kit.
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The ancient system of healing the illness has given us various natural ways to treat physical ailments without taking any medicine or without the help of any physician.
Modern life has created an illusory wall in front of us which disables us from looking back at how our ancestors cured their illness. A look into their ways to deal with diseases unfolds many mysterious ways of healing.
One such method is energy healing or spiritual healing which not only helps us to treat any physical ailment but it also enables us to heal emotional pains which usually is the root of many illness.
We all have an energy body around us and there are 7 energy centers which is also known as chakras. The improper flow of energy through these chakras or the imbalance in energy flow through them often results as a disease in our physical body.
By finding out the imbalance in body’s energy system and healing it the corresponding physical ailment can be cured.
Being healthy is human’s natural state whereas disease is something that occurs due to hindrance in the natural flow of energy. Human body has the natural ability to heal itself but for that it is necessary that the life force should flow in a natural way through its energy system.
A person’s subconscious mind already has the image of his perfect health but due to various energy patterns caused by external events or repeated thinking of negative thoughts it fails to bring the body back to its natural state, the work of an energy healer is to remove these negative energy patterns from a person’s energy body so that his body could reach back to its natural state.
The energy healing practice ranges back to 5000 years and it is said that the Chinese have employed this method to dissolve cancerous tumors.
Usually energy healing is done through meditation, visualizations, prayers, suggestions etc whereas some people also use herbs, crystal and sounds to clear the energy blockages.
Yoga is also a very good way to heal oneself energy wise and various breathing techniques are also used for the same purposes now days.
Apart from the usage of energy healing for improving the health condition of a person it can also be used in various other areas of his life like wealth, career, personal improvement, relationships etc.
The result we get in our external world is a reflection of what is going on in our inner world. The beliefs that are passed down to us by our society or parents and our childhood incidences decides the state of our energy vibrations.
There are two parts to our life one is physical world that we perceive using our five senses and one is spiritual which can be perceived using our ability to feel.
The spiritual or energy part of our life decides what happens in our external physical world.
With help of energy healing we can improve various areas of our life by identifying the energy patterns responsible for certain conditions in our life and then by curing it.
I suggest Christie Marie Sheldon’s Unlimited Abundance course for this purpose, Christie uses simple guided meditation type of audios and she teaches energy clearing statements. In her course consisting of 24 energy clearing sessions she not only clears various common energy blocks that holds a person from being successful but she also teaches the clearing statements that a person can use in his daily life to clear various repeating life patterns.
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If we are going to talk about the law of attraction with respect to your relationships than we are touching the current status of your life almost completely because your relationships are the perfect mirrors of your inner world.
Your beliefs about life, yourself and everything will be communicated in one way or another through the individuals who matters the most in your life.
The common root cause of most love failures is insecurity, a person’s craving to feel complete only when someone specific will accompany him/her keeps him in an illusion where he is actually chasing someone from whom he needs approval and in most cases the other person represents the lack in his/her own inner world.
One of the most effective ways to analyze a person’s inner state will be to examine the current nature of his circle because a person mostly attracts people in his life according to his current mind status.
Here I am going to enlist five points which will tell you about the workings of the law of attraction in relationships :-
Every relationship you have has many aspects to it, some of them are good and some of them are not so good.
Your focus, rather of the fact positive or negative decides how it will move further. This is why you can improve any relationship by consciously focusing towards the positive facts about it.
Often relationships improve when there is a distance created because both the persons involved take away their attention from the negative side of their relationship by turning away from it completely.
If you are insecure, vulnerable or miserable then you will attract people in your life who will share such similar emotions, it is not necessary that you may know about their emotional state but it will exist in both of yours energy fields bringing you closer to each other through interactions.
If you are feeling confidant, powerful and enthusiastic then you will be bringing into your life people who share the similar mindset.
This is why people come and go in our lives. Yes, there are relationships that stays forever once made and those are mostly created from a greater bonding which involves the similarity in both the person’s perspective towards life.
Your relationships thrive when you are on the right track, but when you are overlooking the areas of your life that needed to be fixed that will be reflected in every relationship that you have.
For example if you are delaying to make some necessary changes in your life that is required then slowly you will find that all your relationships also gets messed up.
This is why you should be more focused to grow in your life because when your life gets out of track your relationships will also start to get disturbed.
The reason most our lives get stuck is because we have attachments to various people. Where the word “attachment” comes it points towards the need to control and lack of faith in higher power.
Attachments are our fears, we worry what will happen to “X” or “Y” if we move out of their life, such relationships creates stagnation in one’s life and one continues to attract the similar condition over and over until he learns to let go his fear.
This point is the opposite of the first one, you can enlist numerous people in your life who seemed to be so important at one point in your life but now they are invisible.
When you move forward in your life you often take away your focus from the old part of yourself and all the relationships that were attached to the old part often slowly stop existing.
So, everything that is present in your life is an expression of your inner world you just have to focus towards what you want in your life and take away your focus from what you don’t want.
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Every incidence in our life which makes us to suffer emotionally has a great impact on our spiritual body or our energy system.
While you may try your best to not think about the past but it seems too hard to forget what happened to you because your energy system is loaded with negative energy patterns which attracts thoughts that feeds your current emotional status.
Whether let it be a one sided love or betrayal, the pain causes a block in your energy system which stops you from thinking positively, the whole world seems hostile to a person who has gone through a heart break.
Time definitely works as a great healer and it changes a person’s emotional state automatically so, if you could just let a few days/months pass without dwelling in the past then you will naturally find yourself getting free of such emotional pain.
On an external level you may feel okay after the time gap, but your inner world may still need healing because you might have developed a negative energy pattern around the subject of “love” and this will further attract circumstances and events which will again cause the similar kind of suffering.
You might have noticed this in your and other people’s life- We all keep on attracting similar life situations until we have altered our core beliefs about the subject.
For Example- A woman who has been cheated by her boyfriend will develop a strong negative beliefs about men like “all men are disloyal” and due to her such belief she will keep on attracting disloyal men in her life until she realizes that some inner work is needed or she gets emotionally unavailable for the rest of her life.
Now, we know that after a heart break a person needs a little healing spiritually so, let us discuss this in a bit more detail.
We all have a energy body around us(aura) and it is the result of the set of beliefs that we have in our subconscious mind.
Our subconscious mind is programmed according to the set of ideas that were passed down to us by our society or our parents when we were growing up. If you have seen your mother in a lot of pain as a kid then you might have formed an energy pattern which attracts emotional pain.
People who in childhood have seen their parents fighting very often are very much likely to attract toxic relationships in their life.
The good news is that you can change your beliefs and reprogram your subconscious mind to attract beautiful and nurturing relationships; all you need is a little self analysis.
With the help of the feelings that you feel while thinking about a subject you can detect your subconscious mind programming about it, all you have is to feel good by deliberately finding better thoughts around that particular aspect of your life and feel better.
You can also prefer to find lot of positive evidences that will convince your mind that you are worthy to receive love and that a nurturing relationship is possible. Look for good evidences and you will start to see it everywhere. If you have a strong intent to find a lot of positive evidences than you will find them with ease.
The flow of love in your life depends on the well being of the heart chakra in your energy body. A lot of past incidences often cause a person to get his heart chakra blocked. When the energy flow is not proper through the heart chakra then a person is reluctant to receive love.
One of the best ways to open yourself to receive love is listening to Christie’s Heart Center Awakening meditation that is available for free download in her love or above free energy breakthrough kit(click to download).
So, all you have is to take a strong decision that you will only attract good relationships and work a little with your inner world in order see the outer results.
If you are interested in knowing more about how to keep your energy centers in a good state so that your life problems can be solved then you may want to check out Jeffery Allen’s Duality program.
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According to the law of reversed effort when a person’s desire and imagination is in conflict, his imagination will win.
In other words a person’s subconscious mind will accept the dominant idea of the mind no matter what you try to impress on it using your will power it will be working the other way. In fact the more you try to forcefully impress an idea or suggestion in your subconscious mind the quicker will be the opposite effect because your fear in such cases will be more dominant then you desire, it is very obvious that when a person is anxious he is acting out of fear on the other hand when a person is at peace it gets easier for his subconscious mind to work according to his wish.
Let me explain you this with an example:- Suppose you forgot a certain name or a song, you try to recall it using your will but it gets harder to recall that name, you give your best effort but you cannot retrieve that specific information. Finally you give up and go to sleep; you are at peace with you mind as you relax and suddenly that name or song pops up in your head.
What happened in the above case is when you were trying hard to recall that name/song your dominant feeling was “I forgot it” and the more you tried the harder it was to bring it back from your memory bank. Now, when you were about to sleep you let go the effort and eased off so, the feeling of “I forgot” went away and your subconscious mind followed the instruction.
Most of us have a problem in giving proper instruction to our subconscious mind because our old conditioning produces a voice inside us which acts as a hindrance in the path of our desires in life.
Feeling of fear is one of the major obstacles that counter-balances all of our positive thoughts and efforts.
Christie Marie Sheldon in her unlimited abundance program calls it as the cross purpose which sends mixed messages to the universe, she also helps us to remove such blocks so that our desires could manifest.
Mixed messages are unclear intentions which a person has when he hears a lot of voices in his head because of desires that are not in accordance to his old conditioning so, here either he has to choose another desire or he will have to work to change the beliefs in his subconscious mind and replace it with the new better ones.
We have discussed now that a person’s dominant thought will be accepted by his subconscious mind and putting more effort makes it to follow the opposite of the desire.
So, a wise thing to do when faced with such situation where the dominant thought is opposite of what is desired will be to relax and remove all the negative feelings. Using imagination in a fun manner rather than with anxiousness to achieve a specific result will be a very good option here.
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